As they say, a picture is worth a thousand words. After dating too long, here is what Montrella helped us to do…
Nia & Shakeel
A healthy partnership offers support. It serves as a steady source of love in a world that’s wavering and inconsistent. Two people come together and make promises, but sometimes those promises are broken.
When that happens – maybe after one time, maybe after one-hundred – thoughts like this start to creep in:
“Relationships are hard.”
“Once trust is broken, it will never be the same.”
“Our couple friends aren’t happy either.”
“I’ll learn to live with it.”
“There’s always divorce.”
They simply can’t. If you’re not 100 percent confident that you and your partner are on the right track in your relationship, it’s time for backup.
It’s time for a coach.
As a holistic talk therapist and relationship coach, I bring a practical approach to the magic of love and romance.
After decades of experience – as a professional and a human with a heart – I can honestly say that I still believe in fairy tales. I believe you really can ride off into the sunset with the love of your life. I just believe that when you do, you need a little sunscreen.
That’s the part of the fairy tale you don’t see.
The credits roll and we’re left thinking everything is perfect. But no one considers that Prince Charming is better acquainted with Cinderella’s glass slipper than her. How is he supposed to know her love language?
And don’t get me started on Cinderella’s self-esteem issues. How can she accept love until she learns to have it for herself?
But those things can be learned. I’m here to tell you, you really can grow old with someone who adores you to pieces – you really can be safe and happy with your one true love. And deep down, you believe that too. Otherwise, you wouldn’t be here.
I’m on a mission to help people stop fighting with each other and start working together to solve the problem. You deserve to be happy – together.
As they say, a picture is worth a thousand words. After dating too long, here is what Montrella helped us to do…
Nia & Shakeel
Newlyweds, pregnancy, infidelity and lack of trust. These were some of the major issues impeding our idea of “living happily ever after.” We thank God for finding Montrella and for her Couples Coaching, which saved our marriage!
…Prior to being in Montrella’s Couples Coaching we barely communicated, which always led us to argue about everything. We were both in so much pain it was hard to hear the other person, hard to express how we were feeling, hard to admit when we were wrong and most importantly hard to forgive one another. I, Kobe, was already thinking that it was over and preparing myself to just pay child support. I, Jacque, felt so betrayed and had lost faith in our marriage. Instead, our relationship made a turn for the better with Montrella’s help and her Faith in us.
…Montrella made us feel welcome and never made us point the finger at the other person. We both ruined our relationship, we both played a part spreading negativity in our household. She made us remember the great times we use to have by encouraging us to communicate. Montrella taught us how to forgive one another and how to move on. She literally restored our marriage and we are forever grateful for her… We’re still young and still figuring out this thing called Marriage, we’re so glad we didn’t give up on each other. We’re growing and learning every day and with a baby on the way we are extra confident that we made the right decision to seek professional help. Thank you so much Montrella for giving us another chance at Love! #LoveWins
Forever grateful,
Kobe & Jacque
I highly recommend this course to every couple, even to those with partners like myself who have taken communications courses in my Master’s degree program. Note: Montrella’s Couples Communication Course is totally different than anything I have done before. It was a lot of FUN too! Prior to this class I felt that my boyfriend and I struggled with communication. During this class I realized my role in how our communication was playing out. Now I feel that I am a much better listener and with our new skils we both express ourselves more freely. I laugh because before this class, my boyfriend used to be all in his head. Now he is able to pay attention, listen to me and acknowledge what I say. Montrella, you are much appreciated!
K.N.
I am very satisfied with my results after taking Montrella’s Couples Couples Communication Course. I highly recommend it to couples. It is great for not only your relationship but for general business and personal friendships. Two of my biggest takeaways from the course are my increased ability to stay focused on the point I am trying to get across to my girlfriend and how better I am now in listening and responding to what she has to say. My girlfriend and I have seen a big difference in our communication and relationship. For example, we are now acknowledging one another more and having clearer more direct conversations. It seems so much easier to be with each other too. Thank you Montrella!
J.K.
Whatever you’re struggling with – she’s a work-a-holic, he cheated, or you’ve just grown apart – there is one reoccurring element missing with every couple that walks through my door:
A common goal.
Couples need to know what their goal is and how to achieve it. And the most important part of all… You must both want it more than anything. Because when you work together toward something that you both believe in, you not only accomplish that goal, you become a team.
Stop trying to wing it
Successful people are always upping their game. They’re constantly training, studying, researching, and implementing trial and error.
Tiger Woods has a golf coach, Tony Robbins has a life coach, why do we enter the most important relationship of our lives and not ask for help?
How would your relationship improve with a qualified, experienced, and unbiased party to step in and identify the roadblock between you and your partner? Someone to help you create and implement the relationship blueprint for your dreams?
Stop settling for anything less than a lifetime of happiness!
When you hire me, we get down, we get dirty, and we work it out. My mission is to get you into your dream relationship and out of my office as soon as possible.
You want a long-term relationship with your partner, not your therapist.
As much as we’ll laugh, cry, and get real with each other, ours is a short term relationship. After a few sessions or short months together, you will no longer need me. You’ll have the tools to support yourself and each other.
Here are 3 ways we can work together!
In this 2-hour intensive, we get to the bottom of a big issue you’re facing. The approach here is brief and solution-focused. Click Here.
A 4, 8, or 12-session package. Whatever you choose, you’ll leave complete in your last session. Click Here.
For private VIP clients, I discreetly travel to your home, hotel or office for in-person coaching. Click Here.
For breakthroughs, blocks and ah-ha moments – this time together with your partner has the power to ignite real change.
Couples have taken years to uncover what we can get to the bottom of in these 2 hours.
We waste no time as we explore a tough decision you’re facing or have been putting off.
Some examples are:
This results-driven coaching will give you both the clarity you seek and the confidence to do what’s best for you and your family. And the best part about it? You get there together.
1 Session – 2 hours
The Breakthrough Batch is for couples ready for on-going work. In just 4, 8 or 12 sessions, we create new habits, patterns, and mindsets around your relationship.
My services are customized to client needs, some areas we might work on include –
Sessions are active and include homework. For those serious about creating lasting change, get ready to experience a real transformation.
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Bring the experience to you!
When dealing with private matters, some couples prefer to work out of the privacy of their own home. I serve a variety of VIP clients whose confidentiality is crucial. With the Couple’s Concierge option, I discretely travel to your home, hotel or office for in-person coaching.
Rates vary.
All inquiries are 100% confidential.
For couple’s coaching, yes. It’s crucial that you show up to work on your relationship together. I also provide coaching and therapy services for individuals if that feels more appropriate. Learn more here.
Not at all! I serve clients all over the country with online video sessions.
Great question. It’s hard to say until I know where you’re at, which is why I offer a free 15-minute consultation. With just a few short questions, I’ll be able to find the source of your concerns, then offer the best solution for your relationship success.
Not ready to commit? Enjoy these free resources to help you along your relationship journey!
Montrella Cowan is the founder of Affinity Health Affairs, LLC. She is a holistic (mind-body-spirit) talk therapist and relationship coach, trusted for her high-quality service, knowledge, personal care, and passion to help people have healthy relationships and families. In addition to her private practice, Montrella’s niche of a “practical approach” has helped her to become a widely sought after motivational speaker and trainer on national and international platforms.
In this 2-hour intensive, we get to the bottom of a big issue you’re facing. The approach here is brief and solution-focused. Click Here.
A 4, 8, or 12-session package. Whatever you choose, you’ll leave complete in your last session. Click Here.
For private VIP clients, I discreetly travel to your home, hotel or office for in-person coaching. Click Here.