This is the question that we are going to focus on today. But how do we answer it?
I assume that you already have a vision of how you would like your love life to be. A vision of how it looks, who you are with, or the things you do together.
But what I need you to do right now is to look in the mirror and ask yourself this: “Are you the person that you need to be in order to have that relationship you want?”
A lot of times, people have big ideas about the perfect mate they want. And there is nothing wrong with that. That is totally fine. In fact, getting clear about what you want is very important. But on the other hand, you also need to think about who you need to be in order to have a person like that. You have to be worthy of the love that you desire and the person that you want to spend the rest of your life with.
So, how can you become ready for a real relationship?
♥ Create A Great Self-image
You need to create a great self-image to be the kind of person you need to be. This is essential to a harmonious relationship. You have to keep in mind that it takes two to tango. Aside from wanting your mate to have all the wonderful qualities, you, too, need to come and be ready.
♥ Complete Your Past
Whatever your relationship status is, completing your past is important. This is a very crucial step that you should not skip, because if you don’t complete your past, you will bring that into your current relationship.
So, how do you do this? You need to get physically, mentally and spiritually fit.
- The physical piece is to make sure that you are exercising and meditating regularly. Take good care of your temple.
- The mental piece is to seek help with processing your past traumas through therapy, for example, so you can put them away for good.
- The spiritual piece is to honor yourself spiritually as a being. One way you can get spiritually connected is by having an attitude of gratitude.
♥ Have A Goal
Having a goal is a relationship necessity. Being clear about your goal is very important. And never abandon it just to get with another person. When you keep your goal in mind, there is a possibility that you will attract someone who has the same goals.
So, go ahead and do the work. Create your own self-image, complete your past and have a goal in which you are committed.
Make today “the day” that you take the first step to become ready for a REAL RELATIONSHIP!